Erotica For Women: Fantasy Department

Anal Play Erotica

Taboo no more

Anal Play Erotica is AWESOME


Anal Play Erotica

I always felt like Anal Sex was such a 'taboo' and 'antifeminist' thing to do. As if I was be degraded engaging in the act.

That kind of BS belief around anything sexual needs to be destroyed. ALL Female pleasure is totally ok, normal, and positive. If Anal is your thing, great. If Anal isn't for you great. But I can say from personal experience it is FUN and feels freaking amazing.

If you want to check out some Ethical Adult Anal Entertainment be sure to check out XConfessions!

Why Is Anal Sex So Taboo?

Honestly, without going deep into years and years of history here is what I have concluded:

  • The patriarchy
  • Poop

Yes, that's it. Great news is the poop issue is easily taken care of with an anal douche, or Tushy Bidet (my fave!). The patriarchy issue is a whole 'notha topic of conversation, but the best way to combat that? Be your unapologetic self and enjoy anal sex if you damn well want to! Shame free, sister.

Anal Sex: An Erogenous Powerhouse!

The great news in all of this: the Anus is PACKED with nerve endings just begging to be pleasured. With the right amount of Anal Training, Lube, Communication and Patience you can be one of the many Women who enjoy Anal Sex and Anal Orgasms! Yes, I said Anal Orgasms.

Here are some fun facts about anal pleasure:

  • anal sex can stimulate the same nerve endings in the clitoris
  • there are so many ways to stimulate the anus: from tongue, fingers and penises, to plus, beads and dildos. Oh, the possibilities!
  • adding some anal into your life opens you up to a whole new realm of orgasms from dual penetration and dual stimulation.

Guaranteed Great Anal: My Favourite Tips

I think a lot of people shy away from anal for lots of different reasons, but one of the main ones being 'I tried it and I didn't like it'. That was my story for so many years, anyone else?

But, alas, my interest in growing my pleasure portfolio brought me to start researching how to have great Anal Sex and, like everything in life, practice makes awesome!

Here are a few tips to consider if you are new to the world of anal play:

  1. Get a great heavy lubricant: Unlike the vagina, the anus cannot lubricate at all so a silicone lubricant is going to increase pleasure and protect the delicate skin from tearing.

  2. Get an anal douche right away: No one likes poop. Ok, maybe some people, but this blog isn't really for them. So, having a nice clean tush is gonna make the whole experience a whole lot less traumatic for everyone involved. Use the douche before and after anal sex and you can worry a lot less about any unpleasant surprises.

  3. Relax: The more you relax the more fun you will have. Get in the mood, get super turned on, and ease your way up to anal sex with some nice beginner anal toys.

Yes, I Want Free Erotica Stories!

Welcome to Femme Fiction! As a little gift from me, to you, I will be sending over Free Erotica Short Stories straight to your inbox. Enjoy!

xoxo Veronica

Anal Sex Exploration

Want to do some offical, ahem, anal research? Check out XConfessions by Erika Lust. She has a whole section dedicated to anal sex. The best part about anything from XConfessions is you know it is ethical adult films that puts female pleasure at the forefront: no one in her movies ever does anything they don't enjoy or don't want to do. Now, THAT is enough to make me hot!

Get Your XConfessions Subscription Here

Purchasing through my affiliate links help fund my mission to build a sex positive community for Women! Thank you!


Butt Stuff: FAQ's

Q: Which anal toy should I begin with?

A: There are a few that are great beginner options. I personally love these beautiful anal toys that come in a variety of shapes and sizes (plugs are a great place to start while getting used to taking in more size). Always look for toys with a handle, or a flared end, to keep anal play safe. Make sure you have a good lubricant and toy cleaner also.

Q: How do I speak with my partner about my desire to try anal play on him?

A: Anal play can seem intimidating, no matter what the gender. Add in the whole fragile masculinity that can be at play for many straight men and that can make it even more intimidating. But, knowledge is power so here are some facts that might make your man open up to the idea of anal play:

  • the anus is packed with nerve endings which, in my opinion, is begging to be touched by a tongue. The tongue is a great way to ease into it as it's almost guaranteed to be a 100% pleasureful experience.
  • The male G-spot, known as the P-spot, is relatively easy to locate and can give earth-shattering orgasms. It's located about 2 inches inside the rectum and it's worth searching for!

Q: Is using a numbing cream a good idea for anal sex?

A: I am gonna have to go with no for this one. Although it might make you feel more at ease, you are actually at a greater risk of causing damage and tearing the skin this way. The best way to enjoy great anal is to use lots of lube, and use anal play to work up to a penis, or dildo.

Anal Erotica For Women

Anal Play Tips For Women

Anal can seem really intimidating for a lot of women. I have these friends who just are anal rockstars, and then there was me who couldn't make it work. What exactly was I missing here?

After doing some research (my favourite thing to do!) I found out all the Whys and Hows of Anal Sex and, when done correctly, it can be a blast!

Anal Erotica For Her Sneak Peak

Not sure if Anal Play is for you? Be sure to check out the article and Free Erotica below and decide if you want to give it a whirl!

XOXO Veronica

Femme Fiction By Veronica Styles

Femme Fiction By Veronica Styles

Femme Fiction By Veronica Styles is a Female Sex Positivity Movement. Veronica specializes in writing Female Friendly Erotica, and her vision is to create a shame free environment to normalize sexual desire and pleasure for Women. Be sure to join the Femme Fiction Community to get free Erotica for Women sent directly to your inbox, as well as be the first to know about other sex positive resources she releases.

Light A Fire In Your Bedroom, and Girl, Go Touch Yourself! XO V


I love book suggestions from my community. Feel free to send ideas over that you would like to see in print. 

Drop your information below to join the Femme Fiction community and receive your bundle of FREE Erotic short stories! You'll be glad you did.

XOXO Veronica Styles