Sex Toy Talk: My First Vibrator

Your Guide To Hitting Your G Spot

With A Vibrator

Sex Toy Talk: My First Vibrator

My first vibrator was solid gold. It was teal, had three speeds, and helped me squirt like crazy for the very first time. Needless to say this experience was a game changer for this young grasshopper and I cannot wait to share with you all about my favourite toys and new toy reviews.

If you are looking for your first vibrator this is the blog for you!

Welcome To Sex Toy 101

So, there are two categories of sex toys to start with (well actually there are more, but we are going to start with these two today). Vibrators and Dildos. Basically the difference is this:

  • Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes. They can be used internally and externally to target stimulation on the Clitoris, Vulva, Labia, and the Vagina. They are a lot of fun to play with and can help you find all sorts of amazing Erogenous zones you may not know have existed.
  • Dildos are often penis shaped. Some can vibrate and some do not. Dildos come in many lengths, girths, textures, curves, and stiffness.

My first vibrator was about 6 inches, hard plastic, and would be considered what lovehoney.com would describe as a 'Classic Vibrator'. Using this beauty was how I located my G spot and squirted for the first time.

Read on to learn all about the amazement that is the G spot.

My First Vibrator: How I Located My G Spot

My first Classic Vibrator introduced me to my G Spot and I have never been able to go back!

The G Spot is described as the anterior (forward) wall of the Vagina. In reality, it is part of your Clitoral Network which extends all the way down into your pelvis. (Yes, it is GREAT to be a woman!)

The basics to finding your G Spot can be explained like this:

  1. If you are sitting/laying on the bed: bend your legs up
  2. Reach into your Vagina with two fingers
  3. Ensure the palm of your hand is facing the ceiling
  4. Curve your two fingers upwards in a 'come hither' movement to locate your G Spot
  5. Repeat this movement until you find the spot that feels best for you

Not gonna lie, this is a real pain in the ass to do by your self. Enter: your shiny new beautiful sex toy! The right one can help stimulate this incredible area and introduce you to a whole new world!

Some tips for hitting your G Spot (and all female orgasms in general):

  • Relax and play around to find exactly what feels good for you
  • You are not hitting an exact spot, more than stimulating an area that can trigger Female Ejaculation (aka squirting)
  • Not all Women will acheive a massive squirt, but maybe a small flow of liquid
  • Acheieving a G Spot Orgasm can take time to figure out

If it doesn't happen for you, don't stress. It feels good regardless of the end result. Enjoy the ride!

The Best Vibrator For Beginners

It's hard to recommend the 'BEST' Vibrator for Beginners as this is very much a preference thing. But when looking for your First Vibrator I recommend starting with something that is not too intimidating and complicated.

Something like what is pictured in the above banner will work for most sex toy beginners: sleek, a few speeds and no fancy contraptions (i.e. Rabbit, Double Penetration etc.) to get confused by.

Grab some Erotica, settle in with your new toy, and Girl, Go Touch Yourself!

XO Veronica

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: I don't want to go into a store to buy my first sex toy. Where should I order from online?

A: I love shopping online. It is quick, painless, and discreet. Check out reputable vendors like Smile Makers Collection and Lovehoney.com which are two of my faves.

 

Q: Can using a vibrator decrease sensitivity?

A: There has been absolutely no evidence of this happening. But what is backed up by science is:

  1. the benefits of masturbation
  2. many women need variety to acheive orgasm
  3. getting to know your likes and dislikes leads to better sex
  4. health and psychological benefits to masturbation

and so much more! So get toy shopping and Girl, Go Touch Yourself!

Femme Fiction By Veronica Styles

Femme Fiction By Veronica Styles

Femme Fiction By Veronica Styles is a Female Sex Positivity Movement. Veronica specializes in writing Female Friendly Erotica, and her vision is to create a shame free environment to normalize sexual desire and pleasure for Women. Be sure to join the Femme Fiction Community to get free Erotica for Women sent directly to your inbox, as well as be the first to know about other sex positive resources she releases.

Light A Fire In Your Bedroom, and Girl, Go Touch Yourself! XO V

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